Tradition says that your groom shouldn’t see you for the first time on your wedding day until the moment you are holding onto your dad’s arm walking down the aisle. But, I am a fan of “you do you, boo!” whether that means waiting until the aisle or having a first look with your groom before the ceremony.
“Should we do a first look?” is a big question popping up in every bride and groom’s head while planning their wedding. Some photographers strongly push for first looks, but I am a total believer in doing what’s right for you and your relationship. And I will be the first to admit that I was adamant about not doing a first look when my hubby, Ben, and I got married. So, if you are not sold either way yet, here are some pros and cons of having a first look on your wedding day to help you decide.
PRO: Calm your nerves about the ceremony.
Having a few moments for a private first look with you and your groom before the ceremony will give you two the time you need to connect, reassure each other and remind you both that this is the right decision. That way when the time comes for your ceremony, you have already seen your man and can feel confident walking down that aisle in front of all those people.
CON: You just want to stick with tradition.
Like I mentioned above, I was adamant about not seeing my hubby, Ben, on our wedding day until I was walking down the aisle. There is something magical about the tradition of waiting until the aisle, so if you want to stick with it, please go with your gut and do it.
PRO: Knock out wedding party and family photos before the ceremony.
If you are the kind of couple who wants to get to the celebration faster, then a first look could be a great option. I like to schedule your first look with enough time before the ceremony to also take wedding party and family pictures. This way the only pictures you have left after the ceremony are just of you and your new hubby (and trust me, it’s nice to have those few moments together before you join the party).
CON: You’ll have to be a ready a little earlier on your wedding day.
If you do want to know out family and wedding party photos before the ceremony even starts, that does mean you’ll have to be ready a little earlier than normal. But, unless you are having a morning/mid-day ceremony, this shouldn’t be an issue at all.
At the end of your wedding day, the only thing that really matters is you saying “I’ll choose you forever” – first look or not.
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